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OppositesConnect.com

About a month ago there was a write-up on All Over Albany about a new online dating site being developed called Opposites Connect.  The gist of the site goes off the premise of “opposites attract.”  I think it’s a brilliant idea!  The founder Larry Wilson is set to launch the site on June 1st.  If you sign up on the site now you’ll get a free membership for life.

Earlier tonight I stumbled upon the Opposites Connect Facebook Fan Page and started reading through the status messages.   They ask questions in their status messages such as “Heinz or Hunts?”  “Mary Ann or Ginger?”  “Partridge Family or Brady Bunch.”  The one that caught my eye though was this:  “What sticks out in your mind as the most memorable, intriguing, special moment of a recent date, or any date you’ve been on?”

LIAR!!

Well, as many of you know I have gone online and played the online dating game.  (And it’s funny that I call it a “game” because my profile always said “No head games!”  LOL!)  I have stories to tell, both good and bad.  I think the most memorable one was with a guy I’ll call Joe.  Joe asked me to meet him at Houlihan’s in Crossgates Mall for a drink one night after work.  (I LOVE Houlihan’s Guavatinis!!) We got together, had a couple of drinks and even ordered an appetizer.  Our conversation was okay, but it was kind of bland and I really didn’t find the guy super physically attractive.  Plus I HATE it when people lie.  (Always tell the truth!!)  Joe’s profile said he was 5′ 9″ – did he somehow think I wouldn’t notice that he barely came up to my shoulder?  (I’m 5′ 6″)  Fast forward a little bit – to when the bill arrived.  Joe dove for it.  Fine, I’m not going to arm wrestle and tear it in two.  I asked him to see the bill so I could at least pay half.  He insisted that he pay.

The Bill

I have male  friends who were participating in online dating around the same time and they always complained about girls who went out with them, got dinner, etc. and never called again and how they were going broke because of it!!  So, being the considerate gal that I am I thought it only fair that I pay half for two reasons.  One – I didn’t know the guy well and felt I should pay my own way.  I didn’t want to feel as if I “owed” him anything.  Two – Since I really wasn’t attracted to him and knew we wouldn’t be going on a second date – I felt guilty letting him pay.

After about half an hour of going back and forth about the bill I finally just gave up and let him take it.  Trust me – I argued.  I couldn’t let it go on any longer because I was honestly getting really annoyed.  If I had liked the guy prior to getting the bill, the back and forth over who was paying would have killed any shot of a second date because he was kind of a jerk about it.

Moving on – we walk out into the mall to say our goodbyes because I had plans and had to meet someone.  He said something along the lines of  “I had a really nice time with you – would you like to go see a movie this weekend?”  I told him that I thought he was nice, but I really didn’t think we were a good match and I didn’t want to waste his time.  Can you believe the guy had the _____ to say “Are you kidding me?  I just paid for your food and drinks and you won’t go on another date with me??”  The guy honestly looked like he believed I was into him and I owed him another date as if he bought a ticket for admission.  Can you imagine how annoyed I was at this point?  I think I told him something along the lines of “No, you’re not getting a second chance to make a first impression, and for future reference, starting an argument with a girl on a first date is NOT a good idea.  I made myself clear I wasn’t comfortable letting you pay – you insisted and I caved so you wouldn’t cause a scene in the restaurant.”

I have other interesting dating stories in my archives, but I’m curious what stories you guys have.  Since I think for the most part I have different readers – I’d like to hear your answer to their question on Opposites Connect’s Facebook Page.

“What sticks out in your mind as the most memorable, intriguing, special moment of a recent date, or any date you’ve been on?”

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Sorry I’m posting this up so late.  I’ve been letting Michael use my computer since his crashed and sharing isn’t so easy when it comes to my laptop….

Last night was the Times Union’s “Media 2010: How Blogs Shape The New Conversation” in the Touhey Forum in the Thelma P. Lally Building at The College of St. Rose in Albany, NY.  They had a panel of their top bloggers to speak and answer questions from the audience.   They had a video of some local bloggers who spoke briefly about what their blogs were about.  One I found amusing was the Parent to Parent blog.  Tracy Ormsbee said I’m here to give you parenting advice from an experienced standpoint and Jennifer Gish said something along the lines of “I’m kind of the parenting how not to, I’m the train wreck you can’t turn away from.”

They mentioned that the Times Union “readership” is split into thirds:

  • 1/3 of readers only read the paper
  • 1/3 of readers only read online
  • 1/3 of readers read blogs and the paper
  • The TU blogs have an average of about 1,300 comments  day
  • There are over 150 blogs on the Times Union site

There were many other statistics given, but I don’t remember them all.

The blogger Libby Post writes a blog about LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and trans-gender) issues.  I would guess that she has one of the most controversial blogs on the site.  She seemed to handle herself with confidence and reasonableness.  She spoke about how she approves 98% of the comments that come through the site.  The 2% that are denied are erroneous, make no sense, or they advocate violence.  I think that’s very fair on her part.  She’ll let comments through that disagree with her and that’s good for adult discussions if you ask me.  She did speak about people posting anonymous comments.  No blogger likes when people post anonymously.  She made the comment about “the cowardice of anonymity.”  I’m a big believer that if you’re not willing to put your name to a statement you’re going to make, then you probably shouldn’t be making the comment.  Michael spoke a little bit about it in his blog today as well….

I’m so glad that the Times Union sponsored this event and they had a great turn-out.  Below are some other people that were there, were mentioned, or weren’t there – but I like their local blogs.  I’m going to put them in alphabetical order so nobody thinks I’m showing preference.

Check out some of their blogs and let me know what you think.  Leave them comments and show them some love.  We all love blog visits, but we love comments even more.  🙂

Do you have a blog?  If I don’t read your blog, tell me your link so I can check it out.

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The Weekly Blog Interviews: It was military week here at Dozenroses13’s Blog.  Did you meet Mandy Barcus Westervelt, Jeremy Westervelt, Lisa Bathrick Miller, and Sara Caraway Kowalski ??

The Weekly Read: The One-Page Proposal I wrote a business proposal for someone I’m hoping will hire me.  She’s got “old school” training like I do and I think we could be very successful as a team.

The Weekly Music: I really miss listening to music.  I haven’t turned on a radio or played a cd in weeks.  What’s happening to me?

The Weekly Party: Last night Michael & I went to the All Over Albany 2nd birthday party at the Midtown Tap & Tea RoomAll Over Albany is a local blog that has many local contributors that has taken off over the past 2 years and has been a great place to keep up on the happenings in the region.

The Weekly Downer: I feel like I’m wrong regardless of what I say or suggest.

The Weekly Worst Piece of Crap on TV: Can you believe I didn’t turn on my TV for a whole day this week???

The Weekly Food: Fettuccine Alfredo and a chuck roast in the crock pot


The Weekly Amazing Fact: Well it’s not really amazing but did you know: The elephant is the only mammal that can’t jump!

The Weekly Birthdays: Matt Zampi, Shannon Lewis, Steve Dousharm, Mike Wizzo, Jeremy Westervelt, Kim Bertram, Joan Marso, Melinda Powers, Patti Nealon, Sara Thompson, Jason Morrison, Mark Chiarieri, and Shannon Sayles Beckwith

Matt's "Other Woman" ~ Sorry Nicole!

The Weekly Birthday Gifts: Matt Zampi got a new Harley Davidson Nightster, and Kim Bertram got a Kindle.

The Weekly Score: The US woman’s ice hockey team was blowing the competition away!!

Did you do anything interesting this week?

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