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To read about how this series started please read the 1st blog in this series.

#2 – Uncover The Joy of You

“You are the only one who can do exactly what God has planned for you.”

“Value what God has given you.  Creating home-cooked meals that are nutritious is a gift.  Balancing roles of teacher, worker, parent, grandparent, spouse, and friend is a gift.  Loving those around you is the ultimate gift.  You have talents and abilities that are uniquely yours.”

“Look at yourself in the mirror today without finding faults and flaws.  Recognize your uniqueness, and notice the difference when you smile.”

I hate when people tell me how I “should” act.  I hate the words “you should.”  Not to say the words have never passed my lips, but I’m now more aware when it happens.  I try my best to instead say things such as “Have you tried” or What about this idea” or “Have you thought of this?”  Nobody can live your life for you.  We all have choices in life and the outcome of our life can vary greatly based on the choices we make.

Lend A Helping Hand Picture from Rishi Menon http://www.flickr.com/photos/rxmflickr/4358918644/

I try to help people with the talents I have.  I’m hoping they find the joy of my talents helpful.  I have lots of friends who can’t cook (or can’t be bothered because they live alone and let’s face it, it’s not fun to cook for just one) so I try to cook for them.  Nothing says “I care” like a home-cooked meal.  I used to do this much more often when I had extra money around for food, lately though the disposable income is scarce….

I’m also an okay writer – so when a friend needed help writing their resume from scratch – I was able to help.

I try to be the best daughter, niece, sister, aunt, girlfriend, and friend that I can be.  I try to help people when I can because I’m a big believer in what goes around comes around.

A close friend who’s had a few major crisis’ in her life and I had a discussion about how you find out who your true friends that you can count on during major tragedies in your life.  She’s right!  Sometimes it’s as simple as being a friend to listen, other times it’s muscle needed to help with a big move….  I remember when I lived out-of-state who would take the time to meet me out for dinner when I was in town to visit and who couldn’t be bothered to drive across town to see me after I’d driven hours to get there.

I remember growing up that I was taught not to be mean and tease people.  If I didn’t like someone I tended to just keep to myself.  I didn’t want to play into the meanness, because gosh knows there was enough of that though-out the school years!  Kids can be cruel and I saw my fair share of it around me through the years.  I tried my best to be friends with the band geeks, nerds, artists, goth girls, jocks, cheerleaders, etc.  It really didn’t matter to me.  (Now I guess I’m getting back to what I talked about in the 1st blog in the series huh?)

What are the joys of you?
Do you use them to help people?

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The Weekly Re-cap: We talked about what would have been my 11 year wedding anniversary, and brands we likeI begged you to look once, twice and again for motorcycles.  (Keep praying for my friend Brian’s recovery)  We talked about lending a helping hand when we can, and hobbies we have.  We talked about making new friends on meetup.com and it being 10 years since my good friend Cathy passed away.

The Weekly Beverage: Kokopelli Rootbeer from Arizona Pizza in Lee, MA.

The Weekly Tea: I made some pomegranite raspberry iced green tea and I liked it, but Michael didn’t care for it too much.

The Weekly Food: Penne Chicken Florentine  and Boneless Buffalo Wings from Arizona Pizza in Lee, MA

Manatee

The Weekly Amazing Fact:  Manatees possess vocal chords which give them the abilitiy to speak like humans, but don’t do so because they have no ears with which to hear the sound. 

Happy Birthday!!!

The Weekly Birthdays: Brian Feliciano, Dorena Frank, Deborah Tiberio Temple, Erin Geistfeld, Matt Posusta, Heather Feller Marin, Roberta Curtis-Smith, Tobyjean Marzahl, Melissa Leone Brown, Elizabeth Kenny, Cami Hennekens, Paula Broadwater, Tara Zacharzuk-Marciano, Jonny Verderber, Phil Campbell, Alex Kalpaxis, Priscilla Cillessen, John Ham, and Peggy Sue ShermanI hope you all had wonderful birthdays.  Did you do anything special for your birthday??

The Weekly Craft: Working on crocheting another scarf.

The Weekly Activity: Helping others.

The Weekly new people I’ve found on Twitter: HVasilakos (my good friend Helen), and ndkelly29 & JayMarzian who I met at the May Albany Tweetup.

The Weekly Charity I’m Pimping: Walk Now For Autism Speaks my friend Phil Campbell and his family will be walking for his son Ryan.  At the time I’m writing this, the walk as a whole has $357,919 in pledges.  Another charity I’m pimping this week is The Stroll for Epilepsy – Dutchess to Ulster County.  My Friend Marcus Molinaro and his wife Christy will be walking for their daughter Abigail Faith.  Please donate if you can.

Sex and the City 2

The Weekly Countdowns: Sex In The City 2 is now in theaters & The Twilight Saga: Eclipse (June 30, 2010) 33 more days.

Weekly Grand Totals: Percentage of YES RSVP’s that actually attended Brianna’s Chase for a Cure Fundraiser – 6.25%
We’re going to discuss this in more depth in the future. 

 

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This past week has been one of those weeks where Michael and I helped where we could.

We may not have much money, but we do have friends, we do have hands that can work, we do have strength for friends who need more….

Sometimes the support of a friend means so much more than anything that money can buy….

Remember, lend an ear when a friend needs someone to listen, or a shoulder when they need to cry.
Lend your presence when they’re lonely, and a hand when they need help up.

Treat your friends as you’d like to be treated in return.

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